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		<title>Visit Me at The 12 Houses in Grand Forks, ND this Saturday!</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[This Saturday, December 12th, I will be hanging with my friends at The 12 Houses in Grand Forks, ND. I will be doing some hand analysis aka reading hands, maybe even doing some Tarot card readings&#8230;who knows what can happen when the energies begin to flow! I will be there from 11-5&#8230;call and snag a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This Saturday, December 12th, I will be hanging with my friends at The 12 Houses in Grand Forks, ND. I will be doing some hand analysis aka reading hands, maybe even doing some Tarot card readings&#8230;who knows what can happen when the energies begin to flow! I will be there from 11-5&#8230;call and snag a time today.</p>
<p>So join me at The 12 Houses 216 S. 3rd St., Grand Forks, ND  701-757-2025 <a href="http://thetwelvehouses.com">TheTwelveHouses.com</a></p>
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		<title>Hand Analysis Readings at the Edge Life Expo November 14th &amp; 15th</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[WHOOHOO! This weekend is the Edge Life Expo in downtown Minneapolis, MN. From 10-6 on Saturday and 10-5 on Sunday I will be happily holding the hands of everyone possible.
The Edge Life Expo will be at the Hyatt Regency Hotel in the Nicollet Mall in downtown Minneapolis. I usually book up pretty quickly, so if [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>WHOOHOO! This weekend is the Edge Life Expo in downtown Minneapolis, MN. From 10-6 on Saturday and 10-5 on Sunday I will be happily holding the hands of everyone possible.</p>
<p>The Edge Life Expo will be at the Hyatt Regency Hotel in the Nicollet Mall in downtown Minneapolis. I usually book up pretty quickly, so if you are interested in pre-bboking a slot, at my amazing expo prices, call or email me asap. My cell is 218.368.5450 and I will be picking up email on the road or use this one kathyskarma@gmail.com. That rolls right into my phone!</p>
<p>This promises to be an exciting expo and I am looking forward to seeing you and your hands!</p>
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		<title>11:11&#8230;All The Scoop!</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2009 19:57:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Meaning of 11:11
Note from KathyDV. This info came across my Facebook wall and I felt it interesting enough to share&#8230;enjoy!
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>The Meaning of 11:11</strong></p>
<p><em>Note from KathyDV. This info came across my Facebook wall and I felt it interesting enough to share&#8230;enjoy!</em></p>
<p>Those of you following me for some time know that I like to get information from various esoteric tools, and share it in case you find it provocative and insightful. The object of my most recent attention is today’s date - November 11, 2009, or 11:11:11 (by adding 2 + 9 of 2009). </p>
<p>This is the first time this master number has shown up in a date (in what I understand our lifetime!), which is big energy on a number of levels. </p>
<p>To begin, 11 is the master psychic’s number, and focuses on intuition, spiritual truth, ideals and being a conduit for high vibration energy and insights. It’s not about being risky, reckless or even speculative; in fact, it’s the opposite. It’s making choices and decisions from a deep knowingness that transcends the surface ‘look’ of a situation, circumstances or relationship. </p>
<p>When you (or any of us) operate from that deep inner place, you are following your unique insights, which is the only place to enhance our true creativity. Looking for the short, obvious answers stunts our growth, the remedy of which is to know what we know and be responsible for it. </p>
<p>The primary energy of 11:11:11 is (naturally enough) 1 energy, which is about leadership, new beginnings, fresh starts, pioneering, independence, self-awareness, consciousness, leading your own life and taking care of your own needs; however, the shadow side of 1 energy includes being selfish, arrogant, aggressive, egotistical and lacking tact. </p>
<p>The 1 + 1 energy of 11 is the number of connection &#8212; if you know that 1 + 1 equals two, but it doesn’t feeeeel right, it’s a sign that you’ve overlooked some details and your intuition is talking to you to help you connect the dots.</p>
<p>The 11.11 energy invites being fully accountable for your actions and how you are living your life from an evolved perspective. When not fully expressed, the shadow energy of 11 is living in fantasy, instability, paranoia, un-balanced, ignorant, manipulative, with an irrational fear of change and self-sabotage. </p>
<p>It’s a powerful number that can offer clarity or delusion, depending on how you relate to it. </p>
<p>The 11 energy helps us to see things from different perspectives &#8212; even the 11 (when laid sideways) becomes an equal sign (=). </p>
<p>And 11 is made up of two 1s, symbolizing humanity by the 1 looking at itself (think 1:1 with the colon as the mirror). The 11 energy represents both the one person but also the ‘we’ that is formed by two. It is the individual reflecting on oneself at a deep level (not just the surface image) to grow into self-acceptance and more full contribution to the whole. </p>
<p>11:11:11 (the date today) adds up to the number 6, which is the number of domestic responsibilities, home, family, stability, accountability and balance. The 6 energy teaches how to make the ‘right’ decisions, to rise above small-mindedness and to see the hidden aspects of your priorities and decisions &#8212; they have to go beyond your own interests to include your “family” (whether biological or chosen). </p>
<p>There aren’t any quick fixes in the six vibration; instead, it’s about patience and taking time to let things grow (as we do with children). </p>
<p>In this energy, you are the parent &#8212; to shepherd positive growth, to teach, be a good role model, and be fully expressed from the inside out &#8212; for yourself and the people in your world. This may require some healing from the inside out too, which means letting go of that which you know no longer serves you emotionally, physically, intellectually, energetically, spiritually. This is the time to release those old patterns and heal, as the power of profound insights supports your change. </p>
<p>May you discover your insights and illuminated path for yourself and your business by using the 11:11:11 energy today and beyond.</p>
<p>© 2009 Lynn M. Scheurell, All Rights Reserved<br />
Lynn Scheurell, Creative Catalyst, helps entrepreneurs to bridge the transformational gap into being soul-driven business owners creating a livelihood from their true purpose. This type of business development requires extreme personal clarity in combination with innovation and active implementation of proven business practices. Download a free report to learn &#8220;The Seven Deadly Mistakes That Keep Soul-Driven Business Owners from Making Money&#8221; at <a href="http://www.mycreativecatalyst.com">www.mycreativecatalyst.com</a></p>
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		<title>It&#8217;s Your Karma Retreat with KathyDV &amp; Micara</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Oct 2009 22:02:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Join Kathy Dannel Vitcak CSC, CPLC and Micara Link CSC, CPLC as they embark upon a series of Radiant Journeys. Kathy and Micara are both Certified Past Life Coaches® (trained by Denise Linn) and will be guiding you through your Radiant Journeys and Soul-Based Examinations.
Are you curious about Past Lives? Have you ever wondered why [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Join Kathy Dannel Vitcak CSC, CPLC and Micara Link CSC, CPLC as they embark upon a series of Radiant Journeys. Kathy and Micara are both Certified Past Life Coaches® (trained by Denise Linn) and will be guiding you through your Radiant Journeys and Soul-Based Examinations.</p>
<p>Are you curious about Past Lives? Have you ever wondered why you absolutely love Italian food and architecture? Do you find yourself drawn to all things Native American? Is extra weight plaguing you&#8230;no matter what you do? Past Life Exploration can help explain all of this and more! Not only can you find answers, you can heal issues from Past Lives&#8230;yes, you CAN heal the Past.</p>
<p>			This long weekend will include:<br />
			• Past Life workshops and classroom experiences<br />
			• Past Life Journeys and Guided Meditations<br />
			• Meet and work with your Past Life Guides (angels, animals, guides and more)<br />
			• Past Life Growth and Guidance Vision Board Life Mapping<br />
			• Working with Kathy’s new It’s Your Karma Past Life Oracle Deck<br />
			• Free time for journaling, nature walks, boat rides, fishing (if desired)</p>
<p>Dates: Friday, October 23: You may arrive anytime after noon. Welcoming ceremony is 7pm. Class ends on Sunday October 25th at 3pm, but you may stay later, if desired. Kathy and MIcara will be available for one-on-one work Friday afteroon, prior to class and Sunday afternoon after class.<br />
Cost: $197 if you register by October 1st with $50 deposit. After October 1st, $247. This includes lodging in cabins, six meals and all classes. Space is limited, so please register early. Last day for registration is October 17th. payment can be made with check, money order or PayPal. </p>
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		<title>Cheetahs have Fingerprints Also&#8230;well, kinda</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Fingerprints&#8217; identify cheetahs By Jody Bourton Earth News reporter
Conservationists have developed a new technique to identify cheetahs in the wild from just their paw prints. The technique works in a similar way to that which allows humans to be identified by fingerprints. By photographing paw prints in the wild researchers can monitor cheetahs without ever [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://thesecretinyourhands.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/_46402624_p1010151.jpg" alt="_46402624_p1010151" title="_46402624_p1010151" width="226" height="282" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-183" />Fingerprints&#8217; identify cheetahs By Jody Bourton <a href="http://news.bbc.co.uk/earth/hi/earth_news/newsid_8261000/8261358.stm">Earth News reporter</a></p>
<p>Conservationists have developed a new technique to identify cheetahs in the wild from just their paw prints. The technique works in a similar way to that which allows humans to be identified by fingerprints. By photographing paw prints in the wild researchers can monitor cheetahs without ever seeing them. It is hoped that this non-invasive technique may aid conservation efforts to protect the cheetah population in the wild.</p>
<p>The footprint identification technique (FIT) has already helped researchers study other big cats and endangered species including bengal tigers and polar bears. Now the method has been developed for the first time with cheetahs in a international collaboration involving conservation organisations N/a&#8217;an ku sê sanctuary, Wildtrack, AfriCat and Chester Zoo.</p>
<p>The technique is based on the assumption that every paw print is unique to that cheetah and can be identified similar to a human fingerprint. The local San people in Namibia have been able to identify individual animals from their tracks for many years.</p>
<p>Whereas each human fingerprint has a unique pattern of ridges and whorls, each cheetah produces a paw print of unique size, shape and character.</p>
<p>It is extremely important because you can never catch and collar all cheetah to find out about their population size and structure, their interactions and how the population changes over time. Digital photographs of each cheetah&#8217;s prints are taken and fed into a computer database. When a new print in sighted and recorded, a bespoke computer program then scans these photographs, recording the distances between specific points on the paw print, until it finds a match.</p>
<p>So far, researchers have photographed and taken measurements of footprints from wild and captive cheetahs held in N/a&#8217;an ku sê sanctuary in central Namibia, Africa and Chester Zoo in the UK. They now hope to increase the size of their database to include many more wild cheetahs, allowing the cats to be identified in a non-invasive way.</p>
<p>Paw prints from individual animals will enable scientists to understand the movements and interactions of cheetahs plus how many there are in a certain area.</p>
<p>&#8220;It is extremely important because you can never catch and collar all cheetah to find out about their population size and structure, their interactions and how the population changes over time,&#8221; says Florian Weise co-ordinator of the N/a&#8217;an ku sê research programme. This technique will also enable problem animals to be identified and relocated protecting them for future generations. Cheetahs in Namibia that stray out of conservation zones and onto farmland are often killed by farmers who fear they are a threat to their livestock.</p>
<p>In the first year of study on commercial farmland in the Windhoek area of Namibia researchers have identified 18 resident cheetahs in an area of 20,000 ha. Out of this population, two cheetahs were identified as problem animals and subsequently relocated. The team hope to develop the technique so that they can make it available to other conservation programmes across Africa. They also aim to continue their work with local farmers and land owners to reduce cheetah and human conflict.</p>
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		<title>From Gina Lake</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[LOVE TRANSCENDS APPEARANCES from Gina’s blog
Appearances seem so important. Most of us really believe that our appearance is important, and we work very hard at having a certain appearance. This is especially true for women, of course, and this conditioning is very difficult to overcome because there’s a lot of fear that not looking good [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://thesecretinyourhands.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/3486051_blog.jpg" alt="3486051_blog" title="3486051_blog" width="266" height="400" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-180" />LOVE TRANSCENDS APPEARANCES from <a href="http://radicalhappiness.com">Gina’s blog</a></p>
<p>Appearances seem so important. Most of us really believe that our appearance is important, and we work very hard at having a certain appearance. This is especially true for women, of course, and this conditioning is very difficult to overcome because there’s a lot of fear that not looking good will have drastic consequences.  How we look becomes a top priority for many and often remains that way right up until death. My mother, for instance, insisted on “putting on her face” even on her deathbed after her body had been diminished to skin and bones by cancer. Even then, she was still trying to improve herself, still not seeing the beauty that she was as this old dying woman, still not allowing herself to just be as she was. </p>
<p>Our appearance is not entirely irrelevant or unimportant; it does affect how others initially react to us. However, it is not as important as we make it. We suffer over it and try so hard to look other than the way we do. All of this trying is exhausting and takes time and energy away from what is more fulfilling and important in life. That’s the problem—when we are consumed with our appearance, we are not giving our attention and energy to other things that might be more meaningful, more fulfilling, and more rewarding. We might not realize that cultivating kindness is more rewarding than cultivating beauty. We might fail to notice the beauty that is here, within ourselves and others, just as we are. Inner beauty and outer beauty can be at odds, since there is only so much attention and energy we have. Where your energy and attention go reflects what you value. Do you value outer beauty more than inner beauty? You might say that you don’t, but where are you putting your energy and attention? What are your thoughts on? </p>
<p>The funny thing is that others love us for our inner beauty, for the expression of Essence that we are, although they may be attracted to us by our outer beauty. That allure doesn’t mean much if they don’t also fall in love with us. What people fall in love with is not our outer beauty (that’s called attraction or infatuation, not love) but something much more subtle—our being.  They love us because they see lovable qualities that belong to Essence: goodness, creativity, kindness, joy for life, patience, compassion, courage, wisdom, strength, clarity, and so on. </p>
<p>The beauty of getting old with someone is that there is an opportunity to really get that appearances don’t matter. You watch as your beloved’s appearance changes before your eyes into an old man or an old woman, but you may love him or her more than ever, not because of how your beloved looks, but because you love your beloved’s being—you love how he or she is in the world and how he or she is with you. That’s when you really get that all this emphasis on appearances is false. Appearances never were that important. You only thought they were. </p>
<p>Many others believe that too—but that doesn’t make it true. People are under the illusion that appearances are far more important than they are, which does create that reality to some extent. It makes this seem so, and it creates a culture that is sadly misled into putting too much energy and attention on such things. This makes it difficult for us to discover the real truth. But life is wise and ages us so that we can discover this. It is perhaps one of the greatest lessons of our lives, although it may take a lifetime to learn it. </p>
<p>If we see this, then aging is fortunate, as it gives us the gift of finally getting to relax and stop striving to improve ourselves. We finally get to put our attention on what is important—on loving others (and ourselves) just the way we are. This is the greatest gift we can give ourselves and others, and the most important thing we can do in life.</p>
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		<title>Thanks, Conner</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[As most of us are now-a-days, I love me some Facebook. I feel like it is our version of a neighborhood community dropping in kinda place and I unashamedly love it! The videos, the amazing quotes, the friendships that are formed&#8230;it is all so wonderful.
Now, I always have my eyes open for anything about HANDS [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://thesecretinyourhands.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/7231_1197734433629_1536563478_30522103_5488744_n.jpg" alt="7231_1197734433629_1536563478_30522103_5488744_n" title="7231_1197734433629_1536563478_30522103_5488744_n" width="560" height="431" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-177" />As most of us are now-a-days, I love me some Facebook. I feel like it is our version of a neighborhood community dropping in kinda place and I unashamedly love it! The videos, the amazing quotes, the friendships that are formed&#8230;it is all so wonderful.</p>
<p>Now, I always have my eyes open for anything about HANDS and was absolutely delighted to see this great picture by Conner on his mom&#8217;s Margaret King McKay&#8217;s Wall. Of course, I posted and asked permission to share it with all of you and here we go&#8230;</p>
<p>THANKS, Conner for creating such great art using your HANDS!!!</p>
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		<title>DIVINE YOUR PASSION&#8230;at Good Karma Retreats</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[OCTOBER 2-4th&#8230;Join Barbara Moore, Tarot Author, and Kathy Dannel Vitcak, Hand Analyst, for a weekend of Divination, Exploration, Introspection, and of course, FUN!
Using the powerful energy of the Full Moon in the fiery sign of Aries, we will tap into your inner passion. The Moon in Aries is a perfect time for new beginnings and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://thesecretinyourhands.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/600_400divine.jpg" alt="600_400divine" title="600_400divine" width="600" height="400" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-174" /><strong>OCTOBER 2-4th&#8230;Join Barbara Moore, Tarot Author, and Kathy Dannel Vitcak, Hand Analyst, for a weekend of Divination, Exploration, Introspection, and of course, FUN!</strong></p>
<p>Using the powerful energy of the Full Moon in the fiery sign of Aries, we will tap into your inner passion. The Moon in Aries is a perfect time for new beginnings and to initiate change. Various divination methods will be employed to reveal your deepest, innermost desires. Knowing what you really want is the first step in achieving your goals.</p>
<p>We will dive into Tarot Secrets and Exploration, Life Mapping, Hand Analysis, Birth Cards and more. Plus, there will be a Spiritual Swap Meet (bring books, decks, CDs, etc. you wish to swap or share.</p>
<p>Cost for this event is $197, if $50 deposit is received prior to September 12th. After that, cost is $247.</p>
<p>You may mail a check, made payable to Kathy Dannel Vitcak or use PayPal. Go to <a href="http://goodkarmaretreats.com">Good Karma Retreats</a> for more info!</p>
<p>Kathy Dannel Vitcak<br />
17025 Sitka Drive NW<br />
Pinewood, MN 56676</p>
<p>PayPal payments can be made for deposit, full payment, etc. If you wish to pay some check and some PayPal, just ask and we wills edn you a PayPal request!</p>
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		<title>Hand Talk Mastermind Group OPEN!!!!</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am sure many of you have heard of Mastermind Groups&#8230;those groups where you meet on a regular basis to learn from like-minded others. Well, now is your opportunity to meet and work with two of the world of Hand Analysis&#8217; BEST, my teacher and friend Ronelle Coburn and Janet Savage. Both are MASTER Hand [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am sure many of you have heard of Mastermind Groups&#8230;those groups where you meet on a regular basis to learn from like-minded others. Well, now is your opportunity to meet and work with two of the world of Hand Analysis&#8217; BEST, my teacher and friend Ronelle Coburn and Janet Savage. Both are MASTER Hand Analysis Teachers and have read about a bazillion hands - hahaha!</p>
<p>Sign up, enjoy and tell them KathyDV sent you! Here is their blurb and info&#8230;.</p>
<p>Kathy</p>
<p>Dear HTMM members,<br />
A quick reminder that we are reopening the membership for a few more members this September.  If you have someone in mind, please send this along SOON.  The deadline for registration is Midnight Friday, September 4th.  <a href="http://www.handstalkmastermind.com/">They can register here.</a></p>
<p>HandsTalk MasterMind<br />
Topic for September is:</p>
<p>Got the Right Problems and Wrong Attitude? or Are you wrestling with the wrong problems?</p>
<p>September 16, 5 pm Pacific, 7 Central, 8 Eastern</p>
<p>Limited enrollment so sign up now! Deadline for registration is midnight September 4<br />
so that we can receive you hands &#038; fingerprints in time.</p>
<p>Is This You?<br />
If you are asking yourself any of these questions, we have answers for you.<br />
What&#8217;s my unique Life Purpose?<br />
How come I keep hitting the same challenges over and over again?<br />
How do I get meaning AND money out of my work life?<br />
Why can&#8217;t I find a healthy relationship?<br />
Where do I find the courage to start the business of my dreams?<br />
How can I unblock my creative juices?<br />
Why don&#8217;t I ever have enough money?<br />
I&#8217;m at a crossroads. How do I know if I am taking the right path?</p>
<p>What if only seventy-five minutes and $27.95 per month could change your life forever? </p>
<p>The Benefits are many!<br />
Monthly live 60 minute information-packed tele-web conference<br />
Audio recording of call available quickly via easy MP3 download.<br />
Personal Q&#038;A via email with Ronelle or Janet each month<br />
Member&#8217;s Only Site includes:<br />
Member Profiles<br />
Networking<br />
Discussion Forum<br />
Special Offers for Members (discounts on readings, trainings, and products)<br />
Resources for taking the most direct path to your best life</p>
<p>Registering is Easy and Secure:  Please join us.  Remember, the deadline is September 4 and the enrollment is limited!</p>
<p>Janet and Ronelle</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Don&#8217;t worry, Eckhart, you are still my main spiritual-teaching kinda guy, but I must admit to a new love. I stumbled across a great site that sells the most amazing Buddhist statues, jewelry and it has a FUN name, to boot. Visit BigHappyBuddha.com and check it out for yourself. Anyway, they have this daily Buddhist [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Don&#8217;t worry, Eckhart, you are still my main spiritual-teaching kinda guy, but I must admit to a new love. I stumbled across a great site that sells the most amazing Buddhist statues, jewelry and it has a FUN name, to boot. Visit <a href="http://BigHappyBuddha.com">BigHappyBuddha.com</a> and check it out for yourself. Anyway, they have this daily Buddhist you can sign up for and I did. The featured writer since I signed up has been Thich Nhat Hanh and I am smitten! He lasers into the core of just what I need to hear every single day. I have been sharing some of his quotes on Facebook and Twitter and now you have my secret source.</p>
<p>If any of you have discovered him, let me know!, let&#8217;s chat Thich Nhat Hanh!</p>
<p>  <em>Myself, I want to be informed about what is going on in the world. I want to be informed, but that does not mean that I have to listen to the news three times a day. I think there is some kind of vacuum in us we want to fill up; that is why we buy so many newspapers and magazines and why we view so much television. We do not need that much information. I think maybe five minutes daily is enough. Sometime we can survive several months without any news bulletins. And you have friends who can tell you what is important that has happened. </em></p>
<p><em> ~ Thich Nhat Hanh</em><strong></p>
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